Life AD (After Dad): Living Through Grief, Rebuilding Joy-Ten Years Without My father It's hard to admit that it’s been ten years since my father passed away. I still can’t quite believe I’ve lived this long without him. Honestly, I wasn’t sure I’d even survive the first ten days. The pain was so deep, so disorienting, that time itself felt suspended. Yet somehow, slowly, I’ve learned to carry…
On the Cusp: Pushing Through When Breaking Down Feels Closer Than Breakthrough-by Cheryl the TechTillerJune 6, 2025 "Feelings are real, but they’re also fluid. They can pass and I can rise." —Cheryl A. Williams Some days don’t start with clarity or confidence, they start with a weight. A lump in the throat, a tightness in the chest, a feeling that you’re one breath away from crying but somehow still standing. Today…
The Lesson of the Winter Tree-In winter, trees go quiet. No leaves, no blooms, no rush to grow. From the outside, they look bare…maybe even lifeless. But beneath the bark, life is still there, quietly working, storing energy for the next season. People can be like that too. Some of us enjoy being alone from time to time. Not because we’re antisocial or strange, but…
Five Minutes to Quiet Your Mind-Most of us say we want peace, but when we finally get it, we don’t know what to do with it. Silence feels strange at first. We live in a world that trains us to fill every gap: with a podcast, music, social media scrolls, or background TV. But here’s the truth: your brain and body are desperate for moments…
Making Peace with Silence-Most people don’t hate silence, they’re just not used to it. The first few minutes can feel awkward, like you’re waiting for someone to arrive but they’re running late. You sit there and your mind starts scanning the air for something to grab onto. A sound. A distraction. A reason to move. We’re wired for noise now. From the moment…
Morning Nourishment for Me and the Garden-Some mornings, when I’ve got the time and the energy, I blend up something special; not just for me, but for my garden too. A quick smoothie packed with healing ingredients to nourish my body… and then I take the scraps, blend them again and pour that goodness right back into the soil. It’s not an everyday routine (yet), but…
The Thyme Plant – 12 Benefits and Ways to Use It In Your Daily Life-Thyme is one of those herbs that once you try it, you absolutely can’t live without it. Growing up Jamaican, I remember my mother using thyme in a lot of her delicious dishes. Sunday afternoons after church, we wouldn’t be home for more than 10 minutes before you’d hear the repeating “ch-ch ch-ch” sound from the pressure cooker and the…
From Garden to Cup: My Morning Ritual with Fresh Mint Tea-This morning, I stepped outside and let my fingers brush against the soft leaves of my mint patch. The sun was bright and warm on my skin. One of my favorite things to do is tap the stems so the scent of peppermint can fill the air. I always feel fresh, sharp and alive after taking in a few whiffs…